{"id":6947,"date":"2017-03-09T08:30:33","date_gmt":"2017-03-09T15:30:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/americanretirementadvisors.com\/?p=6947"},"modified":"2017-03-02T11:41:39","modified_gmt":"2017-03-02T18:41:39","slug":"why-am-i-me-5","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/americanretirementadvisors.com\/why-am-i-me-5\/","title":{"rendered":"Why am I me"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>[et_pb_section admin_label=&#8221;Section&#8221; fullwidth=&#8221;on&#8221; specialty=&#8221;off&#8221;][et_pb_fullwidth_header admin_label=&#8221;Fullwidth Header&#8221; title=&#8221;Why am I me&#8221; background_layout=&#8221;light&#8221; text_orientation=&#8221;left&#8221; header_fullscreen=&#8221;off&#8221; header_scroll_down=&#8221;off&#8221; parallax=&#8221;off&#8221; parallax_method=&#8221;off&#8221; content_orientation=&#8221;center&#8221; image_orientation=&#8221;center&#8221; custom_button_one=&#8221;off&#8221; button_one_letter_spacing=&#8221;0&#8243; button_one_use_icon=&#8221;default&#8221; button_one_icon_placement=&#8221;right&#8221; button_one_on_hover=&#8221;on&#8221; button_one_letter_spacing_hover=&#8221;0&#8243; custom_button_two=&#8221;off&#8221; button_two_letter_spacing=&#8221;0&#8243; button_two_use_icon=&#8221;default&#8221; button_two_icon_placement=&#8221;right&#8221; button_two_on_hover=&#8221;on&#8221; button_two_letter_spacing_hover=&#8221;0&#8243; subhead=&#8221;March 2017&#8243;] [\/et_pb_fullwidth_header][\/et_pb_section][et_pb_section admin_label=&#8221;section&#8221;][et_pb_row admin_label=&#8221;row&#8221;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;4_4&#8243;][et_pb_text admin_label=&#8221;Text&#8221; background_layout=&#8221;light&#8221; text_orientation=&#8221;left&#8221; use_border_color=&#8221;off&#8221; border_color=&#8221;#ffffff&#8221; border_style=&#8221;solid&#8221; saved_tabs=&#8221;all&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p>By David Edge<br \/>\n[spacer height=&#8221;03px&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p>Can you remember the time you first went to a doctor? That experience has made you either afraid of doctors or gave you a warm fuzzy about doctors? Either way that experience was something that has made you, <strong>you<\/strong>!<br \/>\n[spacer height=&#8221;02px&#8221;]<br \/>\nThere are many reasons folks are afraid of doctors. That fear can range from what\u2019s it going to cost, the thought of sitting in a crowded waiting room, to which doctor should I go see? Sometimes it\u2019s a simple fear of something like needles to take a flu shot. Some of us are just afraid of receiving bad news, so we just pretend or ignore the symptoms in hopes they\u2019ll just go away. These simple things can cause panic attacks or night-mares that make people simply not want to go when they need too.<br \/>\n[spacer height=&#8221;02px&#8221;]<br \/>\nThere\u2019s an actual name for people who are afraid of doctors, it\u2019s called <strong>\u201ciatrophobia\u201d<\/strong>.<br \/>\n[spacer height=&#8221;02px&#8221;]<br \/>\nFolks who are generally afraid of doctors will get increased heart palpitations, wring their hands, and can actually get physically ill just with the idea of going to the doctor. If you think about it, that\u2019s quite an issue, as the very person who can fix you is exactly who you don\u2019t want to see?<br \/>\n[spacer height=&#8221;02px&#8221;]<br \/>\nSome people develop the same attitude towards a doctor visit in the same category as avoiding a restaurant that they had a bad meal or got sick from the food they were served. You just don\u2019t go there anymore. The real difference is that skipping a meal at a restaurant won\u2019t kill you, but not going to the doctor when you\u2019re sick can result in your death.<br \/>\n[spacer height=&#8221;02px&#8221;]<br \/>\nSo what was your first visit to the doctor and how do you feel about it? Can you remember? I know for me I was about 6 or 7 and was climbing a big old oak tree at my grandparents\u2019 house and made it to the top, only to miss a branch on the way down. I fell the last 10-15 feet, receiving a large cut requiring several stitches. My mom wrapped me in a blanket, threw me in the car and off we went. This was an old country doctor who was very experienced and totally put me at ease by saying that \u201cwhy this cut isn\u2019t much of nothing\u201d in a very grandfatherly way. All of a sudden my cut didn\u2019t seem like a big deal to me as he gave me a local and the few stitches I needed. I even got a piece of hard candy he just happened to have in his lab coat pocket. So my experience at that young age left me with a favorable impression of doctors.<br \/>\n[spacer height=&#8221;02px&#8221;]<br \/>\nNow, I just know, not everybody can relay a nice story about their first experience with a medical situation, and of course that is what makes each of us have our own fears or comforts, and that feeling makes you, <strong>you.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>[spacer height=&#8221;02px&#8221;]<br \/>\nSo don\u2019t find yourself wondering about your medical coverage or your share of the financial responsibilities of your Medicare plan. 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